Is a friend in an unhealthy relationship?

Warning signs:
  • Changes in how he/she dresses
  • Lack of interest in activities that he/she used to care about
  • Always calling and checking up or checking in on the other person
  • If the person they are dating has a background where they have hurt a past boyfriend or girlfriend
How can I help a friend in an unhealthy relationship?
  • Offer support: Is there anything I can do to help?
  • Let your friend control who knows…offer to go with him/her if they decide to get help.
  • Say…Thank you for telling me
  • Be there when he/she needs someone to talk to
  • If somebody is in danger be the person to say “that isn’t right” and call 911
Is my relationship healthy?
  • Do both of you make decisions together
  • Can you share your feelings with your partner?
  • Do you feel safe?
  • Do you feel good about yourself?
  • You never feel pressured to do anything sexual with the other person.
  • Both people have a life outside of the relationship.
  • You both laugh together.